Showing posts with label florida. Show all posts
Showing posts with label florida. Show all posts

Friday, December 26, 2008

Neurotypical should not mean "abusive asshole." Don't you agree?

Autism Connect - 'Pattern of abuse of autistic children in Florida schools':
"Alex Barton has opened doors for parents of autistic children to get their message heard, said Palm Beach parent Phyllis Musumeci, mother of a teenage autistic boy.

Alex is the 5-year-old Port St. Lucie boy voted out of his Morningside Elementary classroom in May. Because of his case, the state Attorney General's office began an investigation into how autistic children are treated in schools. The office is trying to set up a meeting to talk with parents and others."
The local news has been all over it, and the local trogs are all over them for calling attention to what they see as a non-issue. And that's where I expected it to stay, frankly.

Perhaps I'm too cynical, perhaps the public outcry - from all sides - truly illustrated the dynamic at work. Or perhaps analysis of the situation from a legal standpoint, in light of IDEA, ADA and simple standards of professional competence was the "Come to Jesus" moment. But the revelation that Wendy Portilla is far from unique in her approach to children is not terribly surprising.

I would go further and suggest that various responses to the situation - accusing the parents of simply being "after the money" or that "kids like that" should be kept away from "normal kids" - show the obvious result of employing abusive assholes. It defines "abusive asshole" as a respectable standard, one to be emulated.

Call me crazy; many have - but I have a problem with "abusive asshole" being seen as "normal." It could explain a lot that is wrong with the US in general and Florida in particular.

Posted by gordongecko on July 12, 2008 at 6:58 a.m.

This entire story has turned my stomach from day one. Only in a society this eskewed would the minority seek to influence the majority. Why should one child be allowed to disrupt an entire class? Unfortunately, liberal do-gooders and the media have been able to make "normal" people feel guilty and "disadvantaged" people feel special. In other words, minority rule. It has become a case whereby the majority should suffer because God forbid you offend one person.

Let me tell you folks, life ain't fair...and people are NOT created equal. This is not and should not be a mutually inclusive society but rather a mutually exclusive society. Punishing a teacher for looking after the interests of 20 students should be rewarded. Instead, we villify her for the sake of 1. This mother needs to recognize one thing. Your child is different. He needs special education.

The fact that this person is most likely a graduate of the Florida educational system, along with the fact that the Florida educational system might not actually understand why that would be a problem is the reason why Fark has a "Florida" tag.

Oh, I encourage you to go read the whole thread to see how much trouble I took to find the one rotten apple in the barrel.

Thursday, January 31, 2008

BDSM, Florida Style

It seems to me that the objection to BDSM among the Social Conservatives is not so much the idea of a happy spanking or two between consenting adults.

Nope. It's the idea that the one submitting has a "safeword" and the right to negotiate "hard limits."

clipped from www.thenation.com
During a typical day each migrant picks, carries and unloads two tons of tomatoes." For that two tons the worker can expect about $50, and annual wages of $10,000-$14,000. Wages have been stagnant for more than two decades.

"We must ensure that all life is treated with the dignity it deserves," President Bush declared
He then segued into a call to ban human cloning.
he certainly didn't talk about dignity
in Immokalee, Florida where – as Senator Bernie Sanders told me
"the norm is a disaster, and the extreme is slavery."
Here, then, is what Senator Sanders shared with me:


"It was really stunning – the likes of which I have never seen in my life. I've long been interested in workers issues. But when we talk about the race to the bottom here in the United States I would say that Immokalee, Florida is the bottom. I think those are workers who are more ruthlessly exploited and treated with more contempt than any group of workers that I've ever seen and I suspect exist in the US.


blog it


Now, this doesn't seem like a good-faith negotiation to me, not in any sense of the word.

Whatever you may think of the practice of BDSM - and many to the left and right of me do think of it as a dubious practice a best and the rankest sort of perversion at the worst - one cannot seriously examine the subculture without realizing that it is founded on an ironclad ethos of mutual respect that is clearly not shared by the the Florida Tomato Grower's Exchange.

In fact, the ethos has been so well thought out, that many of us could legitimately be accused of overthinking the matter.

Yes, I did say "us." I'm an ethics blogger, and this is in part where my ethics come from. Thank you, STella, Steven S. Douglass, Jay Wiseman and so many others that I should be able to name off the top of my head. "Honi Soit Qui Mal Y Pense"

Any one of these folks, these fellow "perverts" and "perps" as the UK Spanner decision would name us, would be qualified to look at this situation and name it for what it is - a situation of manufactured consent, economic slavery engineered in part by compliant and conveniently enforced laws, a corruptible and compliant immigration enforcement authority and of course, the convenient fact that undocumented status means there is both practically and in large factually, no appeal to authority.

In Roman times, even the lowest slave had certain expectations - even those on vast "latifundia," or slave farms, where their numbers were only approximated. Among these expectations were food, shelter and the sort of rude medical care anyone else, short of the Purple, might have available.

In Florida - and no doubt, in Texas - agriculture depends on standards and practices that would embarrass a Roman - and possibly even an Old South plantation owner. And certainly they would embarrass and appall anyone in the BDSM "scene."

But then, we tend to value those who play with us, if only because of the simple ethos of "waste not, want not." But it is really far more than that; it is largely accurate to state that in the graceful dance of power, those of us who practice it mindfully respect one another, and see it as a means of allocating responsibility according to nature and inclination.

My ethics, coming from where they do, seem to be superior to those that come from the whited chapels of the Baptists who so dominate the culture of Florida and the rest of the agricultural South.

So speak not to me of "perversions," when you do not respect the observation from the Bible that "the worker is worthy of his hire." Do not moralize at me, or speak a shaming word about what you assume my beliefs and values must be if you grudge a penny a pound - and do not give charity and hospitality to "strangers within your land."

I know - better than most Baptists, it is sadly clear - what the standards of Jesus were, and the basis and origin of those standards.

And when such a Samaritan as I can be assured of that, it's a sad day indeed.

It was Jesus's point that "good Jews" should be BETTER than "the Samaritans", who were widely "known" to practice all sorts of heresy and "perversion."

Well, when people are in practice enslaved in this land of ours, and those profiting by it - and indeed, those holding the whips, keys and truncheons - are welcomed in church and invited to read the Lesson - I think the lesson ought to be obvious.

For a Christian, "what would Jesus Do" is a question that should always have an answer. The words in red are not difficult to understand, encompassing very simple ideas about how we should treat one another. So if you are a member of a church and you look around, and you see that it is not clear on the idea that fucking with other people's lives and livelihood for profit is a far more significant question than who they may choose to fuck, in what position, with or without procreative potential, you need to leave that church.

That, or accept the karma that accrues to you.

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